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我是Donna, 一位身心治療師、催眠治療師,夢境和敘事治療師。 這裏,我分享自我療愈,身心修復、身心整合的理念和方法,個案和啓示。 分享夢境啓迪、生命故事、探索人性和健康知識、如何運用潛意識的力量,活得自在輕鬆、潛能得到有效的發揮。 這裏,記載了我工作和日常生活的啟迪。 讀懂一個人,與人產生深刻的連結,陪伴人們活出健康和夢想的天空,是我的夢想。 Being a dream therapist, hypnotherapist, and health therapist, my philosophy is to improve abilities in self management, self healing, self coaching and body-mind in alignment.
《善男信女》:當城市生活把人壓至臨界點,電影帶我們找回失落的善良。
看完電影《善男信女》第三天,我的腦海仍然回盪著電影裡的情景和對白,心中有許多的共鳴與反思。
“故事圍繞著茶餐廳東主榮吉(楊偉倫 飾)與食客若蕾(鍾雪瑩 飾)。二人素昧平生,卻因一樁外送派送上的誤會而結怨。雙方各不相讓,衝突由口角之爭逐漸升級至互相報復,將原本已捉襟見肘的生活進一步推向失控邊緣。然而,在連番爭鬥的背後,電影真正探問的是:當城市生活把人壓至臨界點,人與人之間的傷害與扶持,往往只有一線之隔。正如影評人認為電影「技術上精湛」,「以出色的表演和引人入勝的敘事,探討了報復心如何失控」。”
電影中有句對白:
洪若蕾(鍾雪瑩飾演):你估如果起初沒有叫星洲炒米,就不會搞出這麽多事?茶餐廳東主榮吉(楊偉倫 飾):不會,遲早都會發生。
這令我想起常常聽到的一句口頭禪:
早知...就不會...
早知我不叫你來,就不會搞到我...!
早知我不告訴你,就不會...
其實,不斷重複的問題,和早知無關! 沒有找到情緒發作源頭,問題的源頭,問題只會不斷重複,"早知、早知," 不斷的埋怨...也沒有用。
是信念決定命運,還是什麼外在東西和事情決定我們的命運?這是電影從頭到尾貫穿的主線,也是電影試圖探索的主題。
女主角洪若蕾和男主角榮吉都有自己的一些信念,或通俗地講,是他們相信有些東西在主宰他們的將來,這是否是迷信?留給大家去思考。
洪若蕾相信不吃牛肉就可以有運行;她排練的話劇中有句話,意思類似是臉上剛剛長出「墨」,是轉運的先兆。
榮吉也去算命,而且認為很準,他爸爸被打劫跌倒,他自己有那麼多「無妄之災」,都很靈驗。
但洪若蕾後來知道她得到話劇的主角,是她的閨蜜在後面故意做了手腳,把機會讓給了她這位”好朋友“,以取得洪若蕾的信任和好感,這和不吃牛肉根本沒有關係。
一次出錯餐的插曲,讓兩人意外交惡,弱弱相殘一觸即發,各方都來攻擊,演變成一發不可收拾的局面,甚至可以搞出人命(若蕾幾乎自殺)。這不是偶然,也不是榮吉說的算命佬講中了。
最後,又回到原生家庭的問題:
若蕾從 17 歲就離家出走獨立生活,小小年紀受了好多苦,後來還要為自殺的媽媽還債;她越恨媽媽,越容易走上媽媽那條不歸路。
榮吉為弟弟做替死鬼被判殺人罪去坐牢,出獄後勤懇經營茶餐廳,卻被家人視作眼中釘,無論如何證明自己是個好人,也會被家人看成是人渣、不可信賴,說什麼都沒有人相信,連小孩子都不相信他。
但他仍然有善良的一面,冤冤相報何時了!決定不在“玩下去”!
他發現若蕾很久都沒有來拿外賣,直覺讓他感到可能會有事情發生,就馬上送上門,還為她再次做一份熱騰騰的乾炒牛河!
最後,兩個冤家都原諒了對方,榮吉還救了若蕾一命!
榮吉說:人生可能好多都沒有得選,但這個(自殺與否)——是有的選!
最妙的是,正正是那個乾炒牛河,那個牛肉,讓兩顆冰冷的心、仇恨的心連結在一起——原來榮吉非常細心,記住若蕾說的話,她最喜歡吃牛肉。
電影告訴我們:當城市生活把人壓至臨界點,人與人之間的傷害與扶持,往往只有一線之隔!
電影更想暗示:我們的信念有時會包裝成集體潛意識的「信念」,用一些外在東西和事情決定我們的命運,讓我們面對失敗時能好過一點?還是真的迷信其中、不能自拔直到死?
但關鍵是,我們真正想要的是什麼?我們有沒有從自己身上找下原因,有沒有看到自己的智慧和力量,才是改變命運的鑰匙?
而我們的信念,的確是和集體潛意識有關,與個人成長帶來的個人潛意識有關。最重要的是,帶著這樣的信念,會帶我們到何處?
想起心理學的一個定律:
有什麼感覺,就有什麼信念;有什麼信念,就有什麼行為;
有什麼行為,就有什麼結果;累積的結果,就是命運!
那麼,我們從電影得到另一個啟迪:信念決定命運,改寫信念,就能改寫命運!
《善男信女》通過一連串殘忍的「廝殺」,當情緒來到 Enough is enough 的臨界點時,最終找回了內在的慈悲、力量,還有善良、正義感。
這是電影給我們一個完美的答案:人生充滿險惡、光怪陸離,我們帶眼識人的同時,仍然選擇善良,首選是好好愛自己,才有能力愛別人,人生真的就有出路。
電影最後一幕,絕妙!兩人不約而同打電話投訴巴士司機「飛站」,為市民做好事,希望改善巴士服務。我們從他們身上,看到人性的光輝。
點題——大家都可以做回《善男信女》,WE ARE BORN GOOD。
看完這部電影,內心有一種說不出的驚喜!驚喜這部在開演前已經取得金馬獎 9 項提名,從劇本到導演和演員的高水準、高深度、高幽默,讓人又哭又笑,每個演員的演技更是令人驚嘆。
相信很多觀衆都會和我一樣,深深為香港電影喝彩! 香港新一代的電影人,已經有了自己的獨特風格!
P.S.
電影中若蕾有一個夢境,關於媽媽的。但沒有得到深入理解,唯有解讀為命運?“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”(若你未能將潛意識意識化,它便會主導你的人生,而你稱之為命運。)
如何面對CHEESE被移動, 在變局中活出生命的韌性?
有時,改變是我們內心的盼望,是生命給予的機遇。
HAWS:
After finding the new cheese, Haw didn’t take it for granted.
He often went out exploring the maze, keeping an eye on the cheese supply, and ready to move again when necessary. This lesson teaches us to not get too comfortable even when things are going well.
The only constant is change, and we should always be ready for it. Just as Haw did, we can learn to expect change, adapt to it, enjoy it, and be prepared to do it all over again when the time comes.
It’s a continuous process that makes our journey in the maze (life) more fruitful and less stressful.
When Haw finally discovered new cheese, he enjoyed it even more than the old cheese, realizing the journey to find it had been an adventure, with its own learnings and rewards.
This is a lesson in perspective – change can be seen as an opportunity for learning and growth, a chance to explore new horizons.
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At the start of the story, all four characters discover a large source of cheese at “Cheese Station C.”
The mice and the littlepeople establish routines around this cheese source. Sniff and Scurry simple-mindedly return every day, nibbling at the cheese, while Hem and Haw, due to their more complex brains, grow attached to the cheese and start to take it for granted.
They build their lives around it, thinking it will always be there.
One day, the cheese at Station C disappears.
The mice, not overanalyzing or making things complicated, immediately accept the change and go off into the maze to look for new cheese. Hem and Haw, however, react differently. betrayed. Hem becomes angry and refuses to move on, insisting that the cheese must return. Haw, after some denial and resistance, eventually realizes the need to move on and starts exploring the maze for new cheese, leaving Hem behind.
Throughout his journey in the maze, Haw learns several important lessons about change, which he writes on the wall as advice to his friend Hem, if he ever decides to follow. These lessons include:
Finally, Haw finds a new cheese source, even more substantial than the first one.
He meets Sniff and Scurry there, who have been enjoying this new source of cheese for some time already. He reflects on his experience and is grateful for the change, realizing that it has led to something better. Haw decides that he will be more mindful in the future, enjoying the cheese but being ready for it to move again.
Throughout the story, the author uses cheese as a metaphor for what we want in life – be it a good job, a loving relationship, money, health, or peace of mind.
The maze is a symbol for where we look for what we want, our organization, community, or family.
The moral of the story is that we must be prepared to change and adapt when circumstances in our life do. Instead of being paralyzed by fear, we must understand that change often leads to better opportunities. We should not let comfort and routine prevent us from seeking new experiences and opportunities.